Brien I think that the fact that you still remember the pain, even though you became pregnant is very touching. I find that most people forget what it was like never to have been pregnant. You are a special person.
Adopting a child takes too much money and too much time. For me adopting will never replace having a child of my own. I am in pain from being infertile due to PCOS. My no-good, drug addict cousin can get pregnant and carry a baby to term, but I can’t, and it makes me feel like I’m being punished. I’m considering not getting married because I don’t want to put my love through it. You probably will never know what it’s like, it’s worse to me than anything.
HOW IGNORANT are you!!!! Are you that big of a jerk. You NO clue what it’s like not to be able to have children. NONE. For that you are lucky. Why don’t you contribue something of value and get a vasectomy and prevent the world from being exposed to your ignorant spawn?
Do you even realize what a dickhead you are? what you are writing isn’t even making sense. If you call a teenage pot smoker a vulnerable mother, then that woman has no right to be a mom and her baby would be better off elsewhere
listen failures – you might be unable to create life but think about all the benefits that has. global population being the biggest one. happy infertility!
Nice video. btw 1992CJC if two people (mom and dad) have 2 kids that is ZERO population growth. Think about it–they have only replaced themselves. So…if everyone had 2 kids the population would Not increase. (Not that I am against people having more, but just can’t stand when ignorant people make rude, stupid comments.)
You are a jerk, people like me would die to have children to love. People like you should have your organs removed, you don’t deserve to be called human.
This message is alittle old, but I just wanted to say Im sorry for your loss. If I were you. I wouldnt waste anymore time. I’d see a specialist. RE right away. Don’t be like me and wait over 10yrs and we’re still struggling with infertility.
to all you men who cant get kids :/ ” you dont deserve a woman ;( if you cant get kids then you dont need a woman..but some people are great alone… i am so sorry to say this.. i dont mean this in a evil or mean way believe me. i just need to say it to them who cant get kids that they should split up! cause a man aint a man if he cant get kids
Thanks so much for putting this on here! It is so true. We have only been trying a year but it’s finally starting to sink in that something may be wrong. 2 of my best friends are pregnant & one just had a baby and Ive been secretly crying ever since for myself.
it must be devastating for you. i’m still thinking of having kids and i do want them one day. if i found out i couldnt i think my world would fall apart too.
i believe there are other options which a woman can choose to have a child. to me a child is a child and adoption is one of the option i wud choose.
Did you NOT see the whole video, where it states that one if the irritating things is when people say “why dont you just adopt” . serisously thats what you just said! I think your intentions were well meant but came out wrong. If you had any clue about the adoption process I doubt youd have said that at all!
You did not offend me! the whole point of this video was also to educate people..so the simple fact that you looked at it was enough! and that you had sympathy as well! I did not mean for my post to come off as angry.
hi ive been tryin for a baby for 8 years now and for the last 4 years been led to believe i had a 50% chance of concieving thats quite high as most people on here will know. a few weeks ago i was told that information was wrong i will never conceve naturaly. im finding it quite difficult to comprehend does any1 no if there are any chatrooms on the web or places where i will be able to talk to simalar people thanks xxx
6. December 2008 at 10:00 pm
Brien I think that the fact that you still remember the pain, even though you became pregnant is very touching. I find that most people forget what it was like never to have been pregnant. You are a special person.
15. December 2008 at 4:18 am
Adopting a child takes too much money and too much time. For me adopting will never replace having a child of my own. I am in pain from being infertile due to PCOS. My no-good, drug addict cousin can get pregnant and carry a baby to term, but I can’t, and it makes me feel like I’m being punished. I’m considering not getting married because I don’t want to put my love through it. You probably will never know what it’s like, it’s worse to me than anything.
18. January 2009 at 3:51 am
You’re an idiot. Why don’t you go away?
19. January 2009 at 1:56 am
HOW IGNORANT are you!!!! Are you that big of a jerk. You NO clue what it’s like not to be able to have children. NONE. For that you are lucky. Why don’t you contribue something of value and get a vasectomy and prevent the world from being exposed to your ignorant spawn?
19. January 2009 at 5:01 pm
why the hell id adopt african kid? as if theres not enough orphans in my country?
31. March 2009 at 5:57 pm
Do you even realize what a dickhead you are? what you are writing isn’t even making sense. If you call a teenage pot smoker a vulnerable mother, then that woman has no right to be a mom and her baby would be better off elsewhere
10. May 2009 at 5:56 am
this is so beautiful. thank you. We have a baby after 11 years of infertility treatments. But I will never ever forget the heartache.
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7. July 2009 at 10:36 pm
I know how you are feeling!!
7. July 2009 at 10:37 pm
The video was very touching, it felt good to let go and cry while watching it.
15. July 2009 at 2:17 pm
listen failures – you might be unable to create life but think about all the benefits that has. global population being the biggest one. happy infertility!
26. July 2009 at 4:16 am
Nice video. btw 1992CJC if two people (mom and dad) have 2 kids that is ZERO population growth. Think about it–they have only replaced themselves. So…if everyone had 2 kids the population would Not increase. (Not that I am against people having more, but just can’t stand when ignorant people make rude, stupid comments.)
13. August 2009 at 10:28 pm
I am crying right now..you could not have said it any better Brienicole…
17. August 2009 at 12:09 am
You are a jerk, people like me would die to have children to love. People like you should have your organs removed, you don’t deserve to be called human.
31. August 2009 at 5:54 pm
It hurts so much…i feel so alone, less a woman…
15. October 2009 at 1:14 pm
Great video
2. November 2009 at 7:30 pm
This message is alittle old, but I just wanted to say Im sorry for your loss. If I were you. I wouldnt waste anymore time. I’d see a specialist. RE right away. Don’t be like me and wait over 10yrs and we’re still struggling with infertility.
1. December 2009 at 10:00 pm
to all you men who cant get kids :/ ” you dont deserve a woman ;( if you cant get kids then you dont need a woman..but some people are great alone… i am so sorry to say this.. i dont mean this in a evil or mean way believe me. i just need to say it to them who cant get kids that they should split up! cause a man aint a man if he cant get kids
5. January 2010 at 6:58 pm
Thanks so much for putting this on here! It is so true. We have only been trying a year but it’s finally starting to sink in that something may be wrong. 2 of my best friends are pregnant & one just had a baby and Ive been secretly crying ever since for myself.
14. January 2010 at 11:51 pm
it must be devastating for you. i’m still thinking of having kids and i do want them one day. if i found out i couldnt i think my world would fall apart too.
i believe there are other options which a woman can choose to have a child. to me a child is a child and adoption is one of the option i wud choose.
15. January 2010 at 12:29 am
Did you NOT see the whole video, where it states that one if the irritating things is when people say “why dont you just adopt” . serisously thats what you just said! I think your intentions were well meant but came out wrong. If you had any clue about the adoption process I doubt youd have said that at all!
15. January 2010 at 3:00 am
@brienicole no i dont know a lot about the adoption process. i apologise if i offended you.
15. January 2010 at 3:04 am
You did not offend me! the whole point of this video was also to educate people..so the simple fact that you looked at it was enough! and that you had sympathy as well! I did not mean for my post to come off as angry.
4. February 2010 at 5:35 am
hi ive been tryin for a baby for 8 years now and for the last 4 years been led to believe i had a 50% chance of concieving thats quite high as most people on here will know. a few weeks ago i was told that information was wrong i will never conceve naturaly. im finding it quite difficult to comprehend does any1 no if there are any chatrooms on the web or places where i will be able to talk to simalar people thanks xxx
11. February 2010 at 5:28 pm
GREAT support dear
THANKS