i been dating my boyfriend for almost a yr and we made a mistake by having unprotected sex, and i think i am pregnant now since i have been feeling like i am going to throw up for about a week now. But anyway can my boyfriend get into trouble if i am pregnant? im 14 and he is 20. please dont judge me or him since u dont no the whole story.
for those who did judge about me and my bf, i will think about the baby but the problem is if he does get into trouble who will be there for me and my baby and help me rise the kid. putting him in jail would just make everything worst for both me and my baby dont you think? because my parents are divorced and they are not good parents at all and i am more mature then most 14 yr olds because of all the shit i been through with my parents. and if i am pregnant my parents arent going to be worried about the baby im having they will worry more about getting my boyfriend into trouble because they try to do ruin everything and they make everything my fault. lets just say in my house im the only one who works, goes to school and gets good grades,and cleans the house. my stepmom is always telling ppl rumors about me so that is some of what goes on in my house so judge all you want because if u knew how my life has been u prolly wouldnt say the stuff you all been saying.
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
maybe depending. but u should ignore some of those comments by ppl because they dont think about what it would be like for you without the babys father. he shouldnt go to jail if he is a guy that will stand by you for the rest of your life. i mean how is it human logic for ppl to say that he should go to jail when that will make things worst for you and your child. if he is willing to do all the things that are his job as a father and a husband thou he isnt your husband yet he shouldnt get into any kind of trouble if he did that would just be plain stupid.
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
in the eyes of most people & a court of law, your boyfriend is considered a Child Molester, a statuatory rapist, and a disgusting human being.
Please pray, & I wil pray for you too, that you’re not pregnant, if you are, he could go to jail..
I know you want to fall in love & find a great guy at 14, please, for the sake of how you will spend the rest of your life, break up with this guy.
It’s gross that he’s 20 yrs. old & is going out with you. I know you think you’re old & mature enough, but you’re not, there are so many more life’s lessons, you need in the "dating" arena between now & when you turn 18 & even way beyond that age.
go get a pregnancy test…. i really hope you have a supportive family.
*********** I don’t have to "know the situation", you’ve stated the situation for everyone"
Your boyfriend is a child molester.
If you ARE pregnant, THE FATHER OF YOUR BABY WILL BE LISTED ON http://WWW.MEAGANSLAW.CA.GOV. OR A SITE LIKE THIS FOR YOUR STATE AS A CHILD PREDATOR FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE. is that what you want for your child?
good luck to you
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
Well it’s good that we don’t know the whole story, ‘cos there’s not much to it. Yes. It is not a matter of if or whether, he would go to jail and I hope it would be for a long time as what he is doing is called STATUTORY RAPE.
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
Your boyfriend will be in trouble with the law and you would be in trouble with your parents. But you should have known the consequences before you got into that relationship.
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
DUH! You have to be 18 too! Besides, why would you want to screw up your life like that? And can’t you just imagine what people will think of you?
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
Yikes! That’s called statutory rape girl! Your parents could have him thrown in jail!
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
I’d be running away from this creep. For one thing being older than you he should have known better. You have to go to your parents and at least tell them you had sex and feel sick and need to go to the doctor.
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
You should take it one step at a time. Find out if you’re pregnant for sure, first of all. If you are you should tell your parents immediately so they can help you. If you aren’t, you need to be thankful and not let this happen again. If you’re pregnant he can and will get into trouble and I believe that he should. You’re young and you have a lot of years ahead of you, the best right around the corner, don’t mess it up. There are lots of guys out there your age and you have lots of time to find the right one. Good luck!
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
1. Tell your parents or an adult (teacher, counselor, pastor) that will support you and help you.
2. The adult will then know what to do regarding your bf – most certainly reporting him to authorities or perhaps having a meeting with your parents, his, both of you and a counselor
of some sort…that is if he is still interested in you and the baby to come (if you are pregnant) and you in him and perhaps the possibility of a future marriage…though that is often not the case.
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
yes and no……….if your parents like him and think hes a good person then maybe they will be mad and deal with it.But if the police get involved then he can go to jail
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
Mostly YES.
it depends on so many factors too.Mainly your attitude and love.
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
I won’t judge at all. Facts are you are a child (a minor) and he’s an adult and subject to do hard time.
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
Yes, depending on what state you live in, he could be charged with statutory rape.
If you think you may be pregnant, you need to see a gynecologist as soon as possible. You should see one anyway since you are sexually active. Please do not put it off. Go with a friend if you are scared.
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
You should worry more about the health of your baby. You need to get checked by a doctor.
If I tell you that your bf will get into trouble chances are you will not give this unborn baby the proper care it needs because you will worry more about your bf.
My only concern is for the welfare of your unborn child. Let your bf worry about his problems and you worry about the baby.
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
You’re a minor, he’s an adult. The state is going to have a hey day with him.
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
Aww hunni, thats awful! get a pregnancy test and go and see your doctor for the sake of ur health n 2 find out ur choices.. yes he cud get in2 trouble for it, as ur under the lawful age of 16 it wud be considered as rape.. go and find out for sure if ur really pregnant before you start to worry..
hope your ok! x
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
Depending on what state you are in-yes. It would be considered statutory rape. I don’t judge by the age difference. Although I am in my 30′s, my husband is twelve and a half years younger than me.
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
Yes, he could get into trouble. You are a minor and he is an adult. Depending on the state you live in, he could be convicted as a sexual predator and have to register for the rest of his life as one. No judgement, but what do you plan on doing with a baby at 14? Don’t screw up another human being due to your irresponsibility and especially his. He is 20, he should know better. Six years may not be a big deal once you are older but in terms of maturity at your age and his, it is HUGE. Not only do you have to consider the consequences of pregnancy but now he may be in trouble with the law for having sex with a minor.
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
yes since you are a minor and he is an adult, it is considered rape even if you did not say no and agreed to do it. you are under age and he can get into big trouble for that. i suggest that you take a pregnancy test and if you are pregnant, tell your parents right away. they will probably know what to do.
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
It’s called Statutory Rape, sweetie- also known as sex with a minor. If there is any justice in this world, his dumb ass will be locked up for years. And I don’t give a good d*mn what the "whole story" is- your "boyfriend" is a pedophile.
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
Ok, I will not judge……if your parents decide to press charges, he can definitely go to jail for statutory rape and will be labeled & have to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life.
I realize you were both consenting but the whole point of this law is to prevent adults from taking advantage of children. I would highly recommend you get confirmation on this pregnancy and if you are, do not worry about him – worry about you and your child. Best of luck to you
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
14???wow! yes he can a lot!
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
i don’t judge. but yes he could get into trouble. go get a pregnancy test. and if it is true, you gotta tell someone in your family.and once again yes your bf could get in trouble. its ilegal for a 20 year old man to have sex with a 14. i do wish you the best.
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
yes since your a minor
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
If someone calls the police on him, yeah it’s a wrap for my mans. But if both the parents are cool, then he should be straight. Trust me, they’re are plenty of 14/ 15 yr olds walking around with babys, and they bady daddies not locked up. :0
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
hun he is going to get in big trouble. i just went through the same thing but i told my rents. And my bf is 16.(I’m the same age as you)… Take a pregnancy test and if you are let your parents know. But yeah, your bf is in a load of shit if he got you pregnant. I feel so sorry for you…life is a bitch when it comes to sex… next time use protection. Just don’t get an abortion, it’ll make your life worse.
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
You are 14, knocked up and are worried about your boyfriend? LOL…Yes if your parents file charges on him. Hope he’s working because he will have to pay child support.
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
u should 1st check. but of course he will.
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
yes, rember this saying 15 will get you 20, my cousin is 13 nd got knocked up by an 18 year old,but make sure ur pregnate, go get tested and for gods sake be safe
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
i think he can
his older.
but i have no idea
you should take a pregrency test really soon just to make sure
i hope ur okay!
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
i think he will but tell ur mom so u wont get in 2 much trouble
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
Yea, your partents or the state can press charges. Take a test to find out for sure. Good luck
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
1) To test out r you pregnant!!
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
yea he can. ur parents might get mad and charge him. he can go to jail for a long time. im not judging you, but ur bf should have known better. you could have got pregnant even with protected sex.
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
Trouble as in he could go to prison and be put on the sex offender’s list for life. Statutory rape, hun. Even if you consented.
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
You did not mention the state you are in as that has everything to do with the answer.
If you live in some states, he can be charged with having sex with a minor. Some jurisdictions that could mean a prison sentence.
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
yea
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
Yes he can get in trouble. What a disgusting sleeze
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
He’s 20…you’re 14? That’s statutory rape in every state, I think. But if you are pregnant, you need to see a doctor. The most important thing is the unborn baby’s health…and yours!
26. March 2011 at 11:54 pm
In the UK he can get into trouble if someone reports him to the police.You should find out if you are pregnant first,it might be a false alarm. If you’re pregnant or not learn from this and use protection in future. I’m not judging you cos I got pregnant at 15 and my b/friend was 18. Luckily our parents accepted it and everything worked out ok. Our son is 5 now and me and my b/friend are still together. Tell someone you can trust about what’s going on and take it from there. Good luck.